楼主的结论好像是:“让孩子尽情地玩,孩子将来有兴趣有能力上名校就上,没有兴趣就不上,重要的是孩子要快乐、身心健康,对自己有自信、对生活有热情,将来他们自己想干什么就干什么去。”
不能苟同。
如果“让孩子尽情地玩。。。他想干什么就干什么”,将来成人后99%的结果是出现在“We are the 99”的队伍中。
没有赚钱的能力,穷光蛋是不会过得开心的。
In fact, Chinese parents should not push their kids. Just helping them is o.k. When kids in college may not like to do as told. They rather have more freedom. Some parents don't know what they are talking about and pushing their kids. mak