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- 1 回复 smartman
- i would condemn Mei, who is the culprit. She should have stopped her sexual relationship with Zhao after she stayed with Li.
- 1 回复 leahzhang
- I agree with u
smartman: i would condemn Mei, who is the culprit. She should have stopped her sexual relationship with Zhao after she stayed with Li.
- 1 回复 雪的烟花
- 指望男人养的日子一定沦落为宠物了。有那么漂亮吗，有那么温顺吗，最重要的，有那样的心境吗
天涯看客: 女人没工作可以男人养啊，嘻嘻。。男人要是工作就悬了，因那碗软饭可不是好吃的。。。
- 1 回复 smartman
- do you really think so? I am not quite sure.
雪的烟花: 借口吧。如果母亲自强女儿不会差到哪去
generally speaking, i get a feeling that there is little upward mobility in China for a person, especially for a woman, who strives hard to aim high. instead they will tend to seek opportunity outside the country to get a chance for development. this mother (Mei) is trying to 自强 but her method of being 自强 is totally wrong.
- 1 回复 雪的烟花
- 那就是智慧啦。我不觉得文中的女人聪明
smartman: do you really think so? I am not quite sure.
generally speaking, i get a feeling that there is little upward mobility in China for a person, especia ...
- 1 回复 smartman
- what is the "wisdom" (智慧) you meant? Don't quite understand.
雪的烟花: 那就是智慧啦。我不觉得文中的女人聪明
i agree with you that Mei is not smart at all. so, her only assets is her beauty. She wanted to make full use of her assets to change her personal life, but unfortunately, she used it the wrong way.
In China, she could be worse than in the US -- I guess she could only become a 3rd party (adultry) attached to a government officer or a rich business man. What else could she become in China?
In US, she at least has a chance to change her life through marriage. But she screwed it up. Her own fault.
- 1 回复 雪的烟花
- In US, she at least has a chance to change her life through marriage. But she screwed it up. Her own fault. -- 这就是她的不智慧。好不容易找到了跳板却自己去破坏了。如果真是为了女儿就要老老实实的对吧。如果还想要爱情，就是看自己的能力如何，不然一样也得不到。
smartman: what is the "wisdom" (智慧) you meant? Don't quite understand.
i agree with you that Mei is not smart at all. so, her only assets is ...
- 1 回复 smartman
- yes, you are right. her own fault. now, she needs to deal with her survivalship first. affection takes low priority.
雪的烟花: In US, she at least has a chance to change her life through marriage. But she screwed it up. Her own fault. -- 这就是她的不智慧。好不容易找到了跳板却 ...
hope LZ could follow up her story in 3 months and we'll be able to see her trials and outcome. :-)
- 1 回复 雪的烟花
smartman: yes, you are right. her own fault. now, she needs to deal with her survivalship first. affection takes low priority.
hope LZ could follow up her s ...
