永远的绑架 不懈的救赎

优裕的生活，闲散的态度。似即若离的距离---这对老年夫妻本来会慢慢地走完人生，然而一场惨剧颠覆了一切。。。。。。

丈夫和所有成功潇洒的男人一样，得到额外的青睐和浪漫的遭遇，妻子的心隐隐在疼，在麻木。如果不经受突然的失去和付出的选择，两人都意识不到彼此之间的早已经超越生死。

我常常惊诧于岁月的无情，时光的无奈，把多少的情深似海生死相许，不露痕迹地一笔抹去，只剩下沧海桑田。现在看来，人会老的，保有的不会消失，淡了也许，可能如结晶，缓慢地沉淀，而那为晚归人点的灯，那帮老花眼写的超大字和画的逗乐小人，时刻发着光闪着亮，温度合适，如影随形地追着那一个。

草木尚有情  要多少风霜才能将心冷却结冰？允许有疑问有尝试，我们谁不是在想得到最好的呢？

影片里WAYNE留下的遗言是If you love me I have everything I want .此生无憾，可能是对男女关系最高的评价了。可他自己也承认曾经不那么确定的，即使在共同孕育两个孩子生活了半生，仍然有另外的女性纠葛。这是感情的需要，或者因为老去，产生的恐惧。一种是依赖一种是崇拜，他都无法放弃。

我能承受男人有双桃花眼，可我却无法多看别人一眼。一天和一年  永远有明天。流泪也在门背后，何必去捆绑一个你心疼的人？

在绑架的第二天就杀害人质，却照样和家人周旋，这是我最痛恨的情节。在最后时间WAYNE身上的光辉，更让我为他的未亡人深切地痛。枪响的那一刻，我的脸都抽搐了。亲爱的   你只能是我的人质   不要有钱  不要出远门    不要在恶劣天气开车  不要和人结怨   不要在最后时刻才说出真言！

罗伯特雷德福  老了老了，你还是这么摧残你的迷吗？

THE   CLEARING 
Wayne Hayes (Robert Redford), and his wife Eileen (Helen Mirren) are living the American dream, having raised two children and built up a successful business from scratch. He is looking forward to a peaceful retirement with Eileen. However, everything changes when Wayne is kidnapped in broad daylight by a former employee, Arnold Mack (Willem Dafoe). While Wayne tries negotiating with the kidnapper for his life, and Eileen tries to secure her husband's release, she finds herself being investigated by the FBI.

The kidnapping causes Wayne and Eileen to reevaluate their relationship, after Eileen discovers that Wayne has continued an extramarital affair that he promised to end months previously. Eileen begins to wonder whether she should pay the ransom, as it increasingly appears unlikely that Wayne will be safely released.

However, Eileen's efforts to secure Wayne's release turn out to have been in vain, as Wayne was murdered by Arnold early in the kidnapping. Eileen's ordeal takes place over the course of a week, while Wayne is only held for a day before he is killed. The time discrepancy is only revealed towards the end of the movie, and until then it seems that Wayne and Eileen's experiences are occurring simultaneously