美丽的大峡谷的悬崖边上惊心动魄的十分钟!一个救死扶伤的医生生命最后的十分钟!

作者:clearlotus1998  于 2010-5-23 02:05 发表于 最热闹的华人社交网络--贝壳村

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公元2010年5月21日一位美国游客在美国亚利桑那州美国的大峡谷,跳悬崖身亡!美国警方讲大峡谷这种事件一年平均发生十次! 偏偏让我碰上了!缘分(I was the witness, there were about several tourists  that earlier morning and I was the only one who talked to him and tried to save his life but ....)
当时早晨5点多在那个悬崖边有 20多个游客,我 有机会同他谈了十分钟的话,我还想救他,但我没有成功!!
 
美国的大峡谷(Grand Canyon)是世界名胜,当天是礼拜五,我在中午看见来自全世界的游客,还有美国学校组织的春游,看见那些天真可爱的孩子,我考虑了一天还是把我 的所见所闻和 我 真实的感受讲出来!
 
5月20日我 从加州洛杉矶出发,当晚我 停在 一个小镇叫( Ashfork,AZ, about 80 mile away from Grand Canyon), 离大峡谷 80 英里,一晚上才 31 美金(含税),而在前面离大峡谷 52 英里的 Williams, 最便宜的也要 65 美金一天;而大峡谷里的 旅馆最便宜的 165 美金。
我 是 凌晨 2:30 起床,3 点 出发, 我 到达 大峡谷公园是 4点30分,大峡谷公园非常大,开车不停的绕大峡谷一圈要十多个小时,我没有带 GPS, 也没有去拿大峡谷的地图,我 只想 看两眼,摄像一下大峡谷的风光就走,就准备停半个小时,4点多时,大多数游客还在睡觉,我就瞎碰,转到第二停车场,(Parking lot 2),
在路上还有一个真实的故事,下次再讲!
我 到达这个停车场时,已有十几辆车到达,大家都是想赶拍日出的景色,我 5点前先 走到 悬崖边,太阳还未出来,我 又回到车里,调整一下摄像机,吃点东西,一看手机,不好了, 5点 21分了,我 赶紧往悬崖边上走,这时我看见一位大约 60 岁的 美国人 (白人)从他的车里出来,他大概很早就坐在车里,他肯定看见我第一次从他车边走过,我并没有留意, 也不知道为什么他选择了 我 !!
是他叫住我,问我 是不是 中国人,我说是 中国人 ,但我 在美国 住了 很长时间了,我 也算美国人!我说我 是第一次来这里,我 想赶紧把他甩掉去看风景,他说他的名字叫xxx, : “ I know the best
place to take photos, follow me please!"  他说他知道一个最好的地方照相,让我跟他去!我 这时注意到他手里拿了一个白色的信封,让我 有点警觉(我 是读 社会工作硕士时,上过如何预防有人自杀的课程!其中一点就是尽量同他多谈话,来打消他要自杀的念头),我 周围的游客不少人拿照相机,或者摄像机。
但想自杀的人一般都是单独行动,不愿意同别人交流!他边走,还边同我 聊天,(我 就放弃了我的职业警觉!
当时我想自己也别太神经过敏了!,其实我的的第一感觉还是对的!),我说我 从洛杉矶开车过来, 他说他也是从洛杉矶开车过来,他说他住在长滩(long beach), 他很健谈,一会他告诉我,我们 走过了那个地方,我们又往回走,(我们这时是沿着悬崖边的小路走),他开始往一个突出的悬崖角上走,他突然停住了,把手里的信封塞到我的手里,我一眼看见信封上三个字:"suicide "
Call ranger, ( 大峡谷是联邦公园,警察叫 Park Ranger), 我右手赶紧把信封塞在我口袋了,我 伸手就要抓他,他已经跑到悬崖边了,我大声的喊他的名字 come back, please!" 太晚了!“,我 听见他很从容的对我说的最后一句话:”Bye bye, David"
他就在我 眼前消失了, 旁边还有另外几个游客都惊讶的说不出话,我赶紧打 911, 警察的警车几分钟就赶来了!
他跳下去是 5:34 AM, 我 打 911 是 5:35 AM, 警察说这里是大峡谷最深的地方,跳下去,就没救了!
我后来发现,信封里是他的车钥匙!我把信封 给了一位漂亮的女警察!
警察从他的车里发现:他把他的证件,现金,都在车里摆好,警察说他是一位医生(MD Doctor),
他完全可以住165 美金一天大峡谷旅馆,甚至更高级的旅馆,他是一个好人,他最后生命的24小时,他还是没有挥霍享受!
 我 同他一起走过了他人生的最后 10分钟的路, 我 应该有机会救他,我没有做到,让我 终身 悔恨!
我是想告诉所有的人,所有的 朋友:珍惜自己的宝贵生命!一失足成千古恨!
(全美国3亿人口, 每年有32000人自杀,每天有 80人)
2010年 5月21日早晨 5 点24分....5 点34分一个生命就那样消失了,警察和救援人员下午 1点多才在谷底找到
他的遗体!
美国亚利桑那的大峡谷每年有来自世界各地的五百万游客!
我 是今年的一位游客!我和那位美国医生肯定前世有缘!
(我在后来把情节用摄像,录下来了,阿狗和 XO 都不愿意帮我的忙,我现在还没有它们转到电脑里!)
造化弄人!我从小反应就慢,中学时短跑还跑不过女生,上高中,大学就是练长跑!
但是 他把那个信封塞到我手里时,我一眼看见了 suicide ,我的 反应就比短跑运动员慢了 0.5 秒,or 0.4 秒
我的手伸出去的时候已经晚了,我差一步就可以抓住他,...就那一步就是天壤之别!
我打 911 时,他还没有落到谷底...他的生命还没有停止...刚出生的太阳还照着他...他还能听见我的呼喊...呼啸而来的警车...

 

In ten minutes I could have safe a doctors life at Grand Canyon National Park!

On May 21, 2010 an American Tourist was at Grand Canyon Arizona. He was there because he want to suicide by jumping off a cliff.  According to the police in Grand Canyon this suicidal attempts happen at least  ten times a year.  It was five in the morning and there was about twenty and more tourists around, when I saw the guy I had a chance of talking to him hoping he would change his mind, but after ten minutes of the conversation sadly I failed.  Grand Canyon, Arizona is the most famous for the scenic spot. 

That day it was a Friday, I went around noon time and I saw a lot of tourist from all over the world. I also saw student tourists from American School Organizations. When I saw the kids innocent adorable smile I thought about maybe telling them about my experience and my real feeling.

On May 20, I embarked from  Los Angeles, California. That night I stopped in a small town call Ashfork, Arizona its about eighty miles away from Grand Canyon, the Motel only cost thirty one dollar plus tax per night, but in the city Williams which is about 52 miles from Grand canyon the cheapest motel cost sixty-five dollars compare to the hotel in grand canyon in cost around one hundred and sixty-five dollars. I woke up around two thirty in the morning and started out my trip to Grand Canyon at 3 in  the morning. By the time I arrived at Grand Canyon National Park it was already four thirty. Grand Canyon National Park is very big just driving around the whole park takes at least more then ten hour. I did not brought my GPS, also I did not take any map from the visitor center, I really want to do is just simply take a look at the scenery and took some pictures.

The first thing happended before I arriving at the Gate of the National Park,  my car hit a large Elk( Huge Deer),  I have been living at US since Jan 8, 1988 and I got my driver license at about March 1988 and I did not hit any deer until that special morning!   Actually  I drove very slow about 30 mile per hour and I was almost arriving at the border of a small town before

the National Park Gate, the Elk was standing by the road?  The huge deer suddenly jumped in front of my car and I stepped my brake and my car still hit his back and because of the narrow shoulder  of the road, it was too dangerous to stop my car and I stopped at the Gas station and it was too earlier to find anyone there,  I managed to drive my car with a broke

window and even no officer at the National Park gate and I saw the pass is $25 dollar and the Green light was on and Said: Pass free and enjoy your visit and I passed free at that  time and I gussed no free lunch and the Elk already taught me a lesson.

 It was past four in the morning most majority of tourists was still sleeping, but I blindly drove around to park at parking lot 2 and  I reported my accident with the Elk to a Park staff

and he called the Park ranger and the polie could not find the injured Elk, the poor deer ran away and I hope the  Elk is still alive as my car is still alive.

When I arrive at this parking lot there was some vehicles already arriving before me because everyone wanted to catch the sunset after five' clock. I walked to the rim and looked my cell phone find out it was about 5 am and  I went back to my car to adjust my camera and eat some breakfast. Right when I look at my cell phone the time is already five twenty-one. I quickly walked toward the cliff nearby, but then I saw a sixty year old caucasian  getting out off  his vehicle. I was not sure why by he picked me and called me and asked me if I was from China.  I told him I am from China but I lived in America for a really long time I should be consider as American. I also told him this was my first time here so I wanted to safe time and quickly went look at the scenery. He told me “ I know the best place to take photos, follow me please.” I noticed he was holding a white envelope by now I was half aware something bad was going to happen, because I got a Master Degree in Social Work from Washington University in St.Louis, MO,  I was looking for clues when a person wanted to suicide because the rim is very dangerous. One clue that I noticed that he was not holding a camera or VideoCamera like other tourists,he was holding a white envelope, but he was willing  to talk with me friendly and his words put my alert down.

When they want to commit suicide they will mostly do it a lone and not drag anyone into it. I told him I drove from Los Angeles to OH, he said  he was also from Los Angeles but he lived in Long beach. He was a very talkative person, then one moment he said: " Lets go  back, we passed the point !' and we went to the other side near the cliff and as I followed him to the edge when he stuffed the envelope in my hand. One can clearly saw the envelope have the word “Suicide” on it.   I

stuffed the envelop in my pocket and right when I sticked out my hand to stop him it was already to late. He was at the edge of the cliff,  I quickly called his name “Come Back, Please!” but its to late and I can still clearly hear him said calmly to me “Bye bye, David” He vanish right before my eyes, there were two tourists saw him falling and  still could not believe what they had seen.  I quickly called  911 and the cops came around 5:40 Am.

 He jump off the cliff around 5:34 Am, I called the police around 5:35 Am, the police told me:" This cliff is the deepest part of the Canyon about 1.6 km, and once you jump down there is no second chance at life. "

Afterward I discovered that in the envelope was his vehicle key. I had given the envelope to a female police. The police discovered his vehicle and from searching through the vehicle they found cash and his personal file. From the personal file it state that he is a doctor, MD, he can afford the 165 dollars a night stay in Grand Canyon National Park hotel or even something more fancier. He is a very good person, for the last 24 hours of his life he did not spend frivolously. I have passed through his final ten minutes of life, I had an opportunity to rescue him but I did not because of that I felt very ashamed of myself.

At the end I just want to tell everyone “ Treasure your own precious life. A single slip-up may cause a lasting sorrow.”

The entire population in America is around 300,000,000, in a year around there is at least 32000 committing in suicide, that mean every day there is at least eighty people.  On May 21, 2010 at  5:34Am a life is already loss, the police and rescue team did not find the remain in the valley till one in the afternoon. I was one of the 5,000,000 tourist from around the world at Grand Canyon Arizona each year and

I wish I could save his life!

 I stayed with the Park ranger for about several hours to help for the investigation of the tragedy and I went to back the cliff to record it with my video camera several hours later.

 At the end I realize I could have extend my hand to safe him one second earlier but I didn't. Just that one second it had already make a difference in the world. Right when I call police he had not hit the bottom of the valley yet, his life did not have to stop. It was like the sun is  coming out and it shines on him and he can still hear me calling his name right ....

I graduated with a Master Degree of Social Work from GWB School of Social Work in 1991 and I failed to live up to my expectations of my professors and their teachings and trainings and but I never regretted my choice, even I was laid off severla time and

I have been driving  a truck to support my my family for the last 5 years and  I am a Social Worker for my whole life and  I am proud of being one of  millions of Social workers around US and world to stand the risk to help others.

My e-mail: savelife1998@gmail.com,   if you feel you need help, please feel free to drop me some lines or call the National hot line to get help!

I respect the Doctor's choice but I still believe there are some other choices in our lives and together we can save more lives in the world.

Some experts estimate there are about 20 million abortion happened in mainland China "  and together we can do things to stop or reduce  these tragedy.

 

 
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3 回复 ewpp 2010-5-23 02:15
您已经做了您能做的了,那一刻,谁会想到。遗憾
4 回复 clearlotus1998 2010-5-23 02:21
警察后来专门派人陪着我,开始先查我同他有何关系,是否是同伙,在美国帮助人自杀是有罪的!
后来警长看见我流泪,还专门派一个警察跟着我,我 问他为啥,他说:“ My Boss just wants to make sure you are OK!"
我 对他说我 没事,他还是跟了我好几个小时!
3 回复 clearlotus1998 2010-5-23 02:25
ewpp: 您已经做了您能做的了,那一刻,谁会想到。遗憾
他好像是个眼科医生,车里有许多仪器,他开的是一辆很久的
Honda  Accord,  我也开一辆 Honda Accord.
2 回复 ewpp 2010-5-23 02:27
clearlotus1998: 他好像是个眼科医生,车里有许多仪器,他开的是一辆很久的
Honda  Accord,  我也开一辆 Honda Accord.
也许他身患重病??别难过了
3 回复 light12 2010-5-23 02:33
够扫兴的,人生多无奈,说不定鬼魂附体。祝你安好!
2 回复 牡丹石头 2010-5-23 02:52
他选择了你做他最后决定的见证人, 那是前世的缘分, 因为他知道你一定会做得很好, 确实你这样做了, 所以他走得非常的放心, 虽然一个生命在你眼前活生生的消失了, 带给你的会是一辈子的记忆, 这也是他送你的礼物, 每个人的所作都有他自己的理由, 我们不必知道, 我们只要知道在他离开时是没有牵挂了, 就没遗憾了. 我们每个人都会有这么一天, 我倒很敬佩这位先生的潇洒, 也很庆幸他能够遇到你.
1 回复 解滨 2010-5-23 02:58
消息已经见报。 又一起杯具啊。

http://www.examiner.com/x-46280-Grand-Canyon-National-Park-Examiner~y2010m5d21-Grand-Canyon-National-Park-visitor-runs-over-edge-and-falls-to-death

http://www.kpho.com/news/23639578/detail.html


http://www.kgun9.com/Global/story.asp?S=12524577
2 回复 clearlotus1998 2010-5-23 03:02
牡丹石头: 他选择了你做他最后决定的见证人, 那是前世的缘分, 因为他知道你一定会做得很好, 确实你这样做了, 所以他走得非常的放心, 虽然一个生命在你眼前活生生的消失了,
谢谢老姐的理解!
2 回复 乌卒卒 2010-5-23 03:05
3 回复 clearlotus1998 2010-5-23 03:10
light12: 够扫兴的,人生多无奈,说不定鬼魂附体。祝你安好!
美国警方反应非常快,马上拉上了黄色的警戒线,把那个角落封锁了!
大峡谷太大了!游客可以去的地方太多了!
大队的游客是10点多开始到达,包括国外,中国,日本的许多旅行团,
11点的时候,停车场的都停满了,一位难求!
他们都不知道早晨发生的事!
4 回复 东方华 2010-5-23 03:12
惊心动魄,表示慰问!
3 回复 八六 2010-5-23 03:20
人生真是瞬间的事。据说医生通常对人特别敏感,他们的职业就是研究人,他愿意跟你聊天一定有他的道理。
3 回复 乔雨风 2010-5-23 03:30
同情
3 回复 点点星河 2010-5-23 03:31
你做了你所能做的一切,而且做到了最好。对这件事不要太潆絮于怀了。估计等警方找到他的家人后他的家人会要求和你见面的。到时你把他当时的从容镇静和决绝而不是凄凄惨惨的心态告诉他家人时,对他们也许会是一种安慰。保重!
2 回复 xinsheng 2010-5-23 03:44
3 回复 caro 2010-5-23 03:47
牡丹石头: 他选择了你做他最后决定的见证人, 那是前世的缘分, 因为他知道你一定会做得很好, 确实你这样做了, 所以他走得非常的放心, 虽然一个生命在你眼前活生生的消失了,
说的真好
3 回复 xqw63 2010-5-23 03:47
老兄,你做到自己该做的事啦。
一定有什么隐情,让自杀的人选择了不归路
3 回复 caro 2010-5-23 03:51
60多岁,应该退休了,医生经济上不应该成问题,也许是感情或家庭的原因,很为他难过
3 回复 goodoctor 2010-5-23 04:17
祝他一路走好!
2 回复 早安太阳 2010-5-23 04:35
很难过,你要保重,
愿他走好
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