和大家分享俺老公传来的一个伊妹儿

作者:尖儿妈  于 2011-3-22 03:26 发表于 最热闹的华人社交网络--贝壳村

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俺老公几乎从不转伊妹儿,倒是俺总是乐不颠颠地收啊转啊的,他还总说俺每天不务正业!所以看到他转来的东东还真是小有吃惊咧. 看完很有感慨, 俺也是孩儿娘,这篇东东还真对俺有攻击力,所以进村来和所有为人父母的分享。

Story of Appreciation**


One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not be
 the successful me today.

Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

= = = = = 

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done. 

You would have forwarded many mails to many and many of them would have back mailed you too...but try and forward this story to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate...


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2 回复 wcat 2011-3-22 03:33
什么时候的事?在美国都用洗衣机了嘛
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 03:47
wcat: 什么时候的事?在美国都用洗衣机了嘛
这个俺倒是没考查过,不过道理是不变的哈!
3 回复 BL_518 2011-3-22 04:14
很感人的故事~~
2 回复 fanlaifuqu 2011-3-22 07:42
我念字慢,读标题“和大家分享我老公。。。。。。”
2 回复 meistersinger 2011-3-22 10:05
泼点冷水。我们这实际。雇manager时不问怎么付的学费。(EEOC要问罪的。)
话有说回来啦。孩子们从小就要学会自立。
2 回复 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:07
Chinese writing, or a foreigner's writing..
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:16
BL_518: 很感人的故事~~
是的。
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:16
fanlaifuqu: 我念字慢,读标题“和大家分享我老公。。。。。。”
嗯,你可以和崔哥有一比。
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:17
meistersinger: 泼点冷水。我们这实际。雇manager时不问怎么付的学费。(EEOC要问罪的。)
话有说回来啦。孩子们从小就要学会自立。
这俺倒不知,学习啦。
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:18
jjsummer95: Chinese writing, or a foreigner's writing..
That I don't know. I can't tell from the article itself. You maybe right. None the less, the message it carries is applicable to all. It could very well be a story happened in Asia.
2 回复 meistersinger 2011-3-22 10:24
尖儿妈: 这俺倒不知,学习啦。
别往心理去。闲得逗闷子。
这文章是中国人写的。以前看过中文版。有一位海归朋友一天到晚发类似的伊妹儿。
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:26
meistersinger: 别往心理去。闲得逗闷子。
这文章是中国人写的。以前看过中文版。有一位海归朋友一天到晚发类似的伊妹儿。
写得不错啊,俺给孩子们都转了,当天晚上两男孩就要帮我洗碗,很管用的!
2 回复 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:26
尖儿妈: That I don't know. I can't tell from the article itself. You maybe right. None the less, the message it carries is applicable to all. It could very we ...
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2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:29
又学习了,呵呵。
2 回复 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:35
尖儿妈: 又学习了,呵呵。
不知道这是不是原文。。
2 回复 尖儿妈 2011-3-22 10:38
jjsummer95: 不知道这是不是原文。。
还要学习你的研究精神   。是不是都无所谓,俺只是觉得这种教育对孩子很有用。
2 回复 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:47
尖儿妈: 还要学习你的研究精神    。是不是都无所谓,俺只是觉得这种教育对孩子很有用。
美国文化是从小教孩子自立, 而且有可能拿奖学金的是一定要拿的。。这和文章里讲得不一样。。
2 回复 Cristal 2011-3-25 10:31
感人!
2 回复 宁静千年 2011-3-31 06:49
很感人的故事~~zt!
2 回复 cartoonyang 2011-4-10 13:29
很感人的故事~~zt!
ZT!
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