教子故事之一:小刀被老师吼了

作者:jadepython  于 2012-8-9 10:47 发表于 最热闹的华人社交网络--贝壳村

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关键词:老师, 故事

(注: 三刀是我的旧笔名)

三刀的儿子很淘气,前几天从CAMP回来很不爽,说老师对他大吼了,我问:是一般的严厉,还是尖叫?儿子说:是尖叫。我说:那你给学一下。儿子就尖叫了一声,确实很大声。


于是我问好了那个CAMP老师的名字,叫Claire.

昨天我就送儿子去CAMP了,按照儿子的指点,找到了Claire。下面就是对话:

本刀满脸堆笑:Hello, are you Claire?

Claire: Yes I am, how can I help you?

本刀接着堆笑:Can you please come over here, I would like to have a word with you.(气势上一定要居高临下)

Claire 茫然:Yes sure.

本刀皮笑肉不笑:My son, Sandao Jr., told me that you were screaming at him in a class yesterday, he was a little upset when he got home, but I would just like to get your side of story on what actually happened? May be you can give me some sort of explanation? (一副探求真理的模样)

Claire有点意外:Hmm...I am not sure what you are referring to, I did ask them to sit down and stop talking sometimes, but that was toward the whole class, not to your son in particular.

本刀认真的样子:Oh you did the right thing, I am with you totally.(先要肯定对方的工作嘛)Absolutely you need to be firm with them. But I would just like to confirm with you that there was no excessive loudness and unnecessary shouting/screaming involved.(别跟洒家玩虚的,我没跟你开玩笑)

Claire有点无辜:Oh no no, I did not scream at them.

本刀假装释然:Then that's great. Thanks you for your time, have a nice day. (转身就走,不啰唆)

从此以后,据小刀说,那个Claire只敢对着其他人叫了。 其实这么多年,我发现在西方文化里的人,是有一种狼性的,也就是他们会咬任何一个文化外的族裔,这个咬,包括打压/欺侮/虐待/歧视。。。直到发现你会主 动攻击他或者会用棒子去打痛他。这可能是西方人天然的一种争斗习惯。所以我觉得,但凡觉得受欺负了或可能受欺负了,第一件事就得让对方知道你不是好惹的。 然后这个PLAY GROUND,才真正的是平的。


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3 回复 JuneRipple 2012-8-17 07:44
yes, how can I help you? ....hehe ...
1 回复 超越2010 2012-8-26 03:10
有些西方人确实是这样的,分析得有些道理。

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