人生自是有情痴，此恨不关风与月

博友开心兄转贴了一段他（或者是她？）心仪不已的电影台词：

Jonathan Trager, prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance. He was thirty-five years old. Soft-spoken and obsessive（1）, Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic（2）. But in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Jungian persona surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long, reputed soul mate; a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with. Sadly, the protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure（3）. Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. Uh-uh. But rather, it is a tapestry of events that culminate into an exquisite, sublime plan. Ask about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of New York Times, described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life. Things were clearer for him, Kansky noted. Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe we must all possess a powerful faith, of what the ancients used to call fatum; what we currently refer to as —— destiny.

并附上译文如下：
乔纳森卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五。
庄君文质彬彬，公而忘私（1），平素言行，绝无痴态（2），孰料，阳寿将尽之际，流露鲜为人知之浪漫，刹那惊艳，
化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗。呜呼，踏破铁鞋．．．方觉一番心事悉付东流（3）。
语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，庄君依然坚信人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽。
其友文坛巨擘、时报主笔甸恩谓，庄君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟。一言以蔽之：欲臻天人合一，须坚信一字，
此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

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