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赌徒都是“借钱王” 撒谎的演技胜“影帝”

作者：华人新闻于 2016-1-28 09:56 发表于最热闹的华人社交网络--贝壳村

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关键词：赌博, 赌徒

刚到国外真是大开眼界，但最让我开眼的还是周围的同胞。他们自到了这三不管的地界后人性大变，做人无底线，做事不计后果是最突出的表现。在国外大家都是一面之交，用不着顾及面子，谁也没想把这种“临时抗战”关系搞的天长地久。所以，乡亲们的表现完全是放开了自私，没诚信，没公德，没有歉让可言。你有用就使你一把，没用玩蛋去，全是一锤子买卖。如果你再遇到点倒霉的事，乡亲们跑的比兔子还快。不过他们也有几句肺腑之言: “国外这爹死娘嫁人的地界，语言不通，洋人又惹不起，不坑坑老乡还能活人吗”。但有一种人始终的不离不弃，他们就是赌徒。

因为国外的生活太寂寞，没有真朋友，没有家人和亲属的陪伴与监督。乡亲们难免要找点小乐子犒劳一下自己疲惫的身心，嫖和赌当为首选。玩这个不需很好的语言能力和学问，又不用结伴同行，天一黑您到位就行了。他们还为自己找了个连他爹都不能反对的理由: 白妞就是国外的长城。哪有到了家门口都不去逛逛的道理。

但嫖与赌的区别还是挺大的。就是有钱也未必有“泰森”的身子骨。您那窝头底子的身子板儿能扛的住经常到“长城”上遛遛吗？没多久乡亲们就以赌为主，嫖个“白长城”已是挂不上嘴的小事。

赌可大可小，如果是小玩，去个小酒铺找台1分或5分的老虎机就可以了，有$2, 30刀就能玩很久。有时还能赢个几十或$100来块。（初玩的手气较好,女人比男人手气更好）就是输了赌爷也不会在意，本来就是玩玩，也没指着它发财。可赌爷千万别赢个 $500～$5000的，那后果可是毁灭性的。他们一旦赢了“大钱”就会联想到自己的才能，机遇和终身职业的问题。

有位赌爷给我算了一笔账。他说:“俺不贪，一天赢个$300就走人，按6天工作日计算就是$1800/周。去哪找这么好的工作呀？不但可以天天玩，还能挣钱，又不用担心丢工作。您再瞧瞧这赌场的工作环境，多棒呀! 再看看那些整天跟奔命似的白领，天天让老板捏着小命，一到年关就哆嗦，怕被炒。瞧瞧咱哥们，多自主，多自由呀，读那么多书有什么用呀”。啊？! 只在文革时期我听过读书无用论的说法......

赌徒们在短短的几周后就进入了逢赌必输的阶段，他们唯一的想法就是把钱捞回来。赌爷们在我面前的豪言壮语和满脸的自信变成了谦虚，善解人意和低三下四。他们说话的声音虚弱的就像刚做完腹腔手术，一看便知借钱赌搏的日子开始了。

为了借钱赌搏而编出的理由几乎是丧尽天良。他们说所有的亲人都得了“癌症”等着钱开刀。没钱交房租只能睡在大街上，已是6天水米未进，借钱绝对不是为了赌搏而是为了救亲人和生存。同时还不停的发誓要重新做人等等。赌徒们发毒誓是他们看家的本领，一旦钱到手他们会用最快的速度把它扔进老虎机。赌徒是我见过最没有人格的人。一人赌搏将祸害所有的亲朋好友。

赌爷1：这位爷为了赌搏丢了工作，欠了房东$4千多元的房租（$400多/月），致使房东都不敢轰他出去。1995年妻女与他团聚时，他已欠下$9万多元的赌债。又因他每天去赌场“翻本” 很少回家，9岁的女儿因缺少家庭温暖而出走，(家里没有食物) 当她孤独的坐在公园里流泪的时候又遇上了当地著名的老童恋癖。幸亏警察及时发现，免遭横祸。他老婆看不到任何希望后跟着赌1一起赌，说是为了快点还赌债。结果这对赌搏夫妻一举创下当地赌场连续赌博4天4夜不出门的记录。18年过去了，他们所欠赌债至今未还。（他出国前是名内科医生）

赌爷2：他赌搏成性，赌了十年分文无归，输掉了一切及人格。外号“借钱王”。他输光了他舅给他做生意的$20多万元货款。(钱是国内单位的公款) 为了继续赌，29岁的他还发明了一定能把钱“借” 到手的绝招。他带着60多岁的母亲挨家挨户的借钱。一进门老人家一句话不说，坐下就不停的流泪，我们就是铁石心肠也看不下去呀。他不但用此方法先后从朋友那里骗走了好几万元，还从此音信全无。他母亲为了自己儿子却深深的伤害了所人的儿子。（他出国前是科委干部）

赌爷3：赌3好赌的基因是他出国后才发现的。他不像其他赌徒还假惺惺的说两句赌搏害死人之类的话。他认为在赌场上才能找到真汉子的血性。往赌桌边上一坐，那胆识，气魄和挥金如土的感觉才是真爷们。有一次他到外地赌场去玩，进赌场前跟他老婆说钱包放在你这，如果我输了，无论怎样求你骂你都别把钱包给我，咱们的家底全在这了，一定要记住！那女人坐在椅子上双手紧紧的攥着钱包，傻呼呼看着她心目中的“英雄”。半小时后，输的精光的赌3回来了。他要钱包，老婆不给，赌3上来就抢，老婆吓的满赌场跑。失去理智的赌3 边追边骂的行为引起了保安的注意。等赌3输光了所有的钱后才想起他们已经一天一夜没吃饭了，就连加汽油回家的钱也没了。（他出国前是国税局的干部）

赌爷4：他不像上边那几位有魄力，胆敢拿自己的身家性命搏一把。他什么都要顾着，什么也不想舍弃。无论做人做事都不像个爷们，就是“狂”赌的时候同样给人一种伪男的感觉。

赌4家里有位著名的悍妻永远指引着他们家前进的方向。俗话说家有悍妻如有一宝。可掌控一切的母老虎也有打盹的时候。有一次我们去赌4家聚会。悍妻做饭时发现酱油没有了，她给了赌4 $20元，叫他快去快回。可我们从下午5点一直等到夜里12点，赌4也没回来。

那天赌4一出门拿着$20直奔附近小酒吧里的老虎机，谁能想他一把就赢了$500。赌4马上转道去了24小时营业的赌场，先赢后输….，折腾了一夜。第二天上午两手空空的他出了赌场后才想起酱油和母老虎的事。

后来听说赌4胆敢挑战悍妻惩罚条例的后果是: 跪一个月的“搓板”，免房事六个月，不能出席儿子的家长会和学校举办的任何活动，每日上班只能带$5的额度降为0。（他出国前是位英语教员）

20多年过去了，这一代年轻人都已经50多岁了。当年的赌徒不但毁了自己和家庭，还利用了朋友的善良与忍让。他们破坏了他人的家庭利益，伤害了朋友之间的情感和友谊。赌徒们输掉不是金钱与时间，而是宝贵的朋友情义与信任。赌徒们，这一切你们用钱买的回来吗？

北京的大平

2014-12-1

世界日报：赌徒邸千「霸租」纽约家庭旅馆敲诈勒索三千美元

家庭旅馆恶房客拿钱落跑

在法拉盛Ash大道夹邦恩街（Bowne St.）某家庭旅馆租一个床位的中年华裔男子邸千，日前向警方指称房东把门反锁、扔他东西等多种恶劣手段企图非法驱赶。房东孙先生则称，双方纠纷是因邸千欠庞大赌债，没从他那里借到钱而报警。警方介入后，双方终于和解，邸千带着房东借他的数百元日前搬出家庭旅馆，并留下一封给房东的信，作为借据。

房客邸千投诉称，房东孙先生得知市楼宇局（Building Department）要来检查后，开始驱赶房客，因他不肯搬走，多次把门反锁，扔掉他放在冰箱的食物和一些日用品，还企图把他的行李箱扔到街头。

针对这起投诉，孙先生表示，「这房客不久前因攻击罪被捕，释放后没钱，我出于好心让他住进来，劝他改恶从善。」

孙先生指出，双方此次冲突的起因是赌博，「上月20日，他说赌博输掉老板让他办事的钱，不还钱工作就没了，因此开口向我借1000元，我没借他，后来了解到他把离婚卖房刚分到的钱也输掉了，而且向几个人借钱还没还」。

「因为我不借他钱，他就不付租金并威胁称，这个家庭旅馆非法，他就在这里不走，而且要去举报，让旅馆开不下去。这种情况下，我决定关闭家庭旅馆，让其他住客搬走。没想到，他开始搞破坏，弄坏电饭锅、撬门、砸锁、威胁，朝我脸上吐口水，拳头在我眼前晃，吓得我们不敢进屋。」

关于邸千投诉他换锁一事，孙先生指出，对方听说如果房东换锁，警察可以逮捕房东，于是就以换锁为由，两次从逃生楼梯爬到四楼，从窗口进入。孙先生解释，他开始并没有换锁，后来不得已才换锁是因为邸千在锁心里塞了牙签。

孙先生强调，「我并没有扔他的行李，现在他连吃饭的钱都没有，前几天，想向我要3000元，最少2500元，说拿到钱马上就搬走。我最终给了他700元，他在周二早上搬走了，还写了一封给我的道歉信，此事也算告一段落」。

孙先生指出，纽约有上千家家庭旅馆，数以万计的华裔房东分租床位给打工者。家庭旅馆和分租都不合法规，但却为众多收入不高、以打工为生、甚至要寄钱回国的华裔移民提供很多便利、降低他们的生活成本，为政府解决一些社会问题。

世界日报记者／纽约报导

July 28, 2015

（邸千，男，1971年2月出生，辽宁省大连市人，现居纽约法拉盛，职业是送货司机。嗜好抽烟赌博，打架斗殴，诈骗，欠债不还，诬告债主及房东。有犯罪被捕入狱记录。）

Failed gambler Qian Di occupied a guesthouse and extorted $3000 (World Journal post)

An evil tenant blackmailed money from a guesthouse then escaped

Qian Di, a milldle-aged Chinese man who rented a bed from a guesthouse on the Ash Avenue and Bowne Street in the Flushing Town, ecently told the police that his landlord try to drive out him illegally with a variety of harsh means, such as locked the door and throw him baggages. However, the landlord Mr.Sun said, their dispute is due to Qian Di owed huge gambling debts, and can not to borrow money from him, then, called the police. Through the police intervention, the two sides finally reconciliated----Qian Di moved out of the guesthouse recently with hundreds dollars whice the landlord lended him, and leave a letter to landlord for a debt note.

The tenant Qian Di complained that his landlord Sun drives all tenants while hearsay the City Department of Buildings will examine to come. Mr.Sun locked the door repeatedly, and throwed his refrigerator foods and some daily necessities because he refused to move out. Mr.Sun even attempted to throw his trunk to the street.

In view of this complaint, Mr.Sun said, "This tenant was arrested by the attack crime not long ago. He has no money after the release. I let him live here by my kindness. Also I advised him to mend his ways."

Mr.Sun pointed out that cause of comflict is Qian Di indulged in gambling. "On the 20th of last month, Qian Di told me that he lost the payment for goods of his boss in the gambling. He was afraid that he might lose his job if he doesn't return the payment to his boss. Therefore he asked me to loan $1000. I didn't lend money to him yet. Soon after, I learned that he sold his house that he got from the divorce case. He also borrowed money from many people and has not returned to them."

"He didn't pay the rental to me because I didn't lend money to him. He declared this guesthouse is illegal. He will not only to stay living here, but also will report to the government. He threatened to make my guesthouse close. In this case, I decided to close the guesthouse, and persuaded other residents move away. Unexpectedly, he began to engage in sabotage, such as damaged the electric rice cooker, and pried the doors, and smashed locks.He was using violence and intimidation. He spited in my face, and shaked his fist in front of me. Therefore We dare not enter here again."

Regarding the case which Qian Di complainted his landlord changed the lock, Mr.Sun pointed out that Qian Di knew the law requires that the police can arrest the landlord who changes the lock without authorization. Thus Qian Di use it as an excuse to climbed from the escape stairs to the 4th floor and came into the window. Mr.Sun explained that he would not change the lock originally, but he changed it later because of Qian Di crammed the toothpick in the lock.

Mr.Sun stressed, "I did not throw his luggage. Qian Di has no money to buy foods now. A few days ago, He ask me to borrow $3000, at least $2500. He said that he will leave at once, as soon as he gets the money. Finally I gave him $700. He, then, moved out on Tuesday morning, and wrote an apology letter to me. This matter was end."

Mr.Sun pointed out that there are thousands of guesthouses in New York. Tens of thousands of Chinese landlords sublet beds for the migrant workers. The beds subletting of the guesthouses are illegal, but they provide some conveniences for many Chinese immigrants who are low-income, and work for a living, or even to send money to home. The guesthouses reduce their living costs, and help the government to solve some social problems.

World Journal reporter / New York post

July 28, 2015

Translator: Ms.Le Zhou

(Qian Di, a Chinese male, born in February 21, 1971. He is living in Flushing town, New York City now. He is addicted to gambling, fighting, fraud, false debt, creditors and the landlord. He has some criminal records. Warning: Do not lend your money or rent your room for the Chinese gambler Qian Di! If you find out that he is trying to harm you, please report to the police immediately. His SSN is 115-23-9532.)