中国女人嫁给外国人后得到的评价是这样的

作者:change?  于 2018-12-28 05:21 发表于 最热闹的华人社交网络--贝壳村

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娶了中国老婆很寒心?因为他觉得中国女人没有心! 听他怎么说,看别人怎么评。

----"Sponsor my parents, or we're getting divorced." BYE BYE BIATCH!

---In Australia and New Zealand, Chinese women intending to migrate would marry clueless men, mostly Caucasian. They would have their babies and then divorce them when they've obtained citizenship. Once done, they would move their children and former spouses (they would divorce their husband before moving to Australia or NZ) down to these countries. The clueless males tend to be white and retired. They would be forced to pay maintenance to these Chinese women because they are

-----When my wife first told me her name, Ann Noi Ying, I should have paid better attention.

------Dear friend, I am quite quite impressed by your insights into the Chinese marriage. I concur 100%. I married a Chinese girl and I have lived in Australia for 15 years I must say that I am tired of been married to a chinese

----To be fair I’m a westerner and I would save my mom first lmao. Blood is blood but love can be found again

----As a Chinese American, I feel very conflicted most of time on what to do.

-----"My mom has obviously lived her life, she had me, she's done everything she had to do" So you're letting your mom die because she's basically useless to you now, but you save your wife because you can have your fun with her. I'm not asian, but maybe it is westerners the ones who are heartless.

----I  am an Indonesian born, 40 percent chinese. I can definitely tell you that you do not yet understand the half of it. Your friend, who married a chinese wife, understands even less. The number 1 reason a chinese woman want to marry a westerner (not any foreigners, mind you), is because she believes that a western man is more loving towards his wife and willing to support her parents (and even siblings). If she marries a chinese man, she will become part of her husband family and will have only nominal ties with members of her birth family, as that is the culture. China is dynastic minded and children are always taught to see for the future, so it is incorrect to say that children are investments; children are seen as the next generation of the family dynasty and thus must carry on the family ideals. Also the way parents take care of children in china is different with the west. In the west, you practically "kicked out" a man once he reach adulthood; so in a way it could be said that parents only do as duty calls. For chinese, parents will take care of their children for as long as they possibly can, sometimes even until their grandchildren finish college, therefore it could be said that they perform far above and beyond "call of duty". So is it so wrong to expect children to care for them in their old age, when they are no longer able to provide for themselves, in return?

----I am a Chinese and my family is 2nd lol Who's my first you ask? It's my cat, you dummy. No, seriously, depends on which part of China you are talking about. Certainly not Hong Kong or Taiwan (I mean culturally China and I am not gonna start the whole "Taiwan is part of China" argument). I wouldn't do anything behind the back of the girl I love. That wife of your friend, she had been planning to use him as a tool to get green cards for her parents in the beginning. Not because Chinese people are heartless, it's that the example you picked, that Chinese person was planning to do that all alone lol Well, I also don't trust people from mainland China either, except a few....and they must have a master degree or Ph.D to show that they have passion in something.....usually people have passion in something other than money are good people.....or just simply insane people....either way, still better than some of the mainland Chinese who just uses others. My family has been borken and we don't see each other often since I was 12. The last t ime I saw my brother was like....hmmm...9 years ago. I only see or talk to my parents once or twice a year on the phone. They don't call or see me more than a few times a year max. I gotta do what I like and they gotta do what they like. My parents never see me as an investment, I didn't really give them a penny after I graduate and they never ask for it. They even told me to keep my money coz I will need it. I think it has to do with communism. My dad used to be a landlords son (my grandpa was a landlord) and after the 1940s....we all know what happened. My grandpa also does not act like what you describe even though he is the most traditional Chinese person I've ever seen. So, I believe it's not a cultural Chinese thing but a Communist Chinese thing. Just look at Taiwan and Hong Kong, the parents are totally different. It makes sense because in Communist China, you got nobody to trust, not the society, not your friend and people you know outside of the family but the only people you can choose to trust is your own family. Since you are to pick your GF or BF from one of the friends/friends' friend, you are not gonna trust them more than your family to begin with. The whole thing is already set up in the beginning. I always tell my parents: "you can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. Those who stick around even through hardships are more valuable than your own family." For me, I have a few friends that I would die for but sorry to say that I will not die for my brothers lol....I don't really know them well tbh.

-----She did not marry you as a last resort lol You are WAY too attractive for that. She married you because her circumstances gave her the freedom to go after someone as awesome as you :)

---I think Chinese are way less heartless than westerners. At least the Chinese cares about family whereas westerners say bye to their parents at 18

----Wrong. Most Asians leave their families. A lot of Asians go to U.S to study and forget about their families. I have met many that said that their parents sent them to study to U.S at age 10 and only receive paychecks from them but not even phone calls and do not see their parents for years until they graduate college which their parents say that that is the only time that they will see them.

-----True, i'm from Australia and I've heard of Chinese women working in brothels just to send money back to their families, could you imagine a white women making that kind of sacrifice for her family?

----Serpentza Your totally wrong I have a Chinese partner and she is not ruled by her mother or anyone else.I have been with this girl 5 yrs now and I have had no problems. My money is safe and so is my love life,,,,

----Answer: All women are heartless

 

 




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