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- 回复 Giada
- 看样子你们有沟通的问题，你不容易，同情一下。但孩子在这边的学校里，一般都会知道要自己养活自己，不能依靠父母。他可能是故意给你找麻烦，以后万事让他自己做主，你只提供意见。跟他说好，他自己的决定要自己负责，让他出去吃点儿苦头就懂事了。看看这个方法可不可以？
foxxfam: 他喜欢有人养他到永远...吃着我的用着我的,高兴就好,不高兴就骂,连我死去的爹妈都跟着受骂....
- 回复 foxxfam
- 我就是这个意思.比如这几天很热,气温高达90多度,他投诉没有冷气...我们来自火炉之乡,我们老家78月份天天40多度...长岛近70出口了为什么一定要冷气? 皮毛受点罪,对他有益....
Giada: 看样子你们有沟通的问题，你不容易，同情一下。但孩子在这边的学校里，一般都会知道要自己养活自己，不能依靠父母。他可能是故意给你找麻烦，以后万事让他自己做 ...
- 回复 smartman
- my $0.02:
i have no prior experience in dealing with an adolenscent, rebellient teenager. i am offering one suggestion: you can influence such a strong, adament person as his friend not as his opponent. it may be tough for you to change your role into his friend.
did you try to network with your peers or colleagues who have sons of your son's age and can be your son's accompany? try to get someone who is a good example, willing to become your son's friend hence can influence your son. try to get one or more.
- 回复 foxxfam
- Nice words, thank you very much ...However, it is clear you have no experience dealing with this type of boy...He has absolutely no interest in meeting new people, or making "friends", and if we ask him to try, he replies; "Whatever!!"
He lies, he cheats, he sneaks around our house and steals things, etc....
He just wants to stay in bed and watch TV all day...He refuses to study English, play sports, or get a job...We are now trying the "tough love" approach...
- 回复 Giada
- 不过他投诉你还是要表示同情哦，同情完了再说，儿子这是你工作的一部分，你就忍忍吧，每个工作都有不如意的地方。换一个工作这里好了，那里又坏了。要锻炼自己对坏事的忍耐力。这样他觉得你同情他，而不是逼着他吃苦。看看这样的效果是不是好些？
foxxfam: 我就是这个意思.比如这几天很热,气温高达90多度,他投诉没有冷气...我们来自火炉之乡,我们老家78月份天天40多度...长岛近70出口了为什么一定要冷气? 皮毛受点罪,对 ...