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- 回复 maryuvic
- 要不说上网好呐。先跟郑卫学习，现在听你的，重新审视我导师的话，到也是那么回事。我做什么我导师都说好。我上次给她见面，说我的新想法，她也很支持。资格考试是和谁都得过，但是问题在于，我导师从不指出我的不足，感觉没有前进的方向。
smartman: not ncessarily. in this case, your advisor will give your more freedom to choose your topics of interests and be more generous of not pushing you. y ...
- 回复 海攀
- 其实美国更没有自由。你只要得罪了一个老板，他不给你写好的推荐信，你就很麻烦了。
maryuvic: 是啊。 我也想过换导师，还小试了一下，没成功。没敢大试，怕现在的也跑了：） 看看郑卫，夺妻之恨都忍了，，其实也就继续前进了，我也混着吧。感谢关于发论文 ...
- 回复 海攀
- 朋友啦，没有那么复杂：）
smartman: 郑卫听到吉姆提到语法，不由地一笑。吉姆也笑着说：“你有一个很不错的修改者帮忙，对吧？”郑卫笑道：“是呀，丽莎帮了我很多忙。”
could this warrant that ...
- 回复 海攀
- 我的感受是美国人更黑。
smartman: most white professors are generous. if you have solid reasons to change an advisor, they should agree (unless your advisor is an indian).
- 回复 海攀
- 在那儿都一样，人家先剥削你，你以后再剥削别人。
smartman: yes, i agree. however, a phd student has to go through the process of being exploited by advisor. seems we have no way to avoid that.
- 回复 海攀
- 无论什么行业，必须努力才能成功。
smartman: not necessarily. zheng could also outperform if he goes to industry, given his talents. but his success may be another type.
- 回复 海攀
- 坚决挺住，谁都有艰难的时候。
maryuvic: 哈哈，没有理由，就是她很支持我，可我考试一次次不过。那我是不是有想法呐？不好找新的。她就是什么也不管，一切都好。不用发文章，她自己读书时没发过，觉得都 ...
更惨- 回复 海攀
- That's a must.
smartman: 考试一次次不过
did you mean "考试一次次不过 the qualifying exams"? if so, that is not your advisor's fault. you still need to pass it ...
- 回复 海攀
- 不剥削也是一种帮助。
smartman: not ncessarily. in this case, your advisor will give your more freedom to choose your topics of interests and be more generous of not pushing you. y ...
- 回复 海攀
- 有没有大师兄什么的，多问一问。
maryuvic: 要不说上网好呐。先跟郑卫学习，现在听你的，重新审视我导师的话，到也是那么回事。我做什么我导师都说好。我上次给她见面，说我的新想法，她也很支持。资格考试 ...
- 回复 smartman
- that is true. everyone has to go through the stages from daughter-in-law to grandma after many years.
海攀: 在那儿都一样，人家先剥削你，你以后再剥削别人。
- 回复 smartman
- that is arguable. in my experience, the minority immigrant professors or bosses from poor countries such as india are worst and most evil.
海攀: 我的感受是美国人更黑。
- 回复 smartman
- of course, i agreed with you with this assumption already. with this assumption, zheng would also outperform in industry, i believe.
海攀: 无论什么行业，必须努力才能成功。
- 回复 smartman
- 1. 你只要得罪了一个老板，他不给你写好的推荐信
海攀: 其实美国更没有自由。你只要得罪了一个老板，他不给你写好的推荐信，你就很麻烦了。
white professor is generous and they won't get affended easily. even if so, after you showed your work and progress, they will change (bartman changed his view on zheng wei).
2. 其实美国更没有自由 ... 他不给你写好的推荐信...
this time, I strongly disagree with LZ.
if 得罪了一个老板, in the US, you may still be able to change to a new advisor or change to a new school.
if 得罪了一个老板, in China, you can not easily change your boss and you will suffer much more from your evil advisor or boss than in the US.
LZ, i hope my disagreement won't offend you. actually, you are my current boss at this forum and ...