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- 2 回复 kou81
- Usually kids adjust to the new environment faster than their parents. I have never heard about a sotry like this. It could have a genetic reason. Maybe his Dad or Mom is depressed too.
- 2 回复 remote
- Educated in China, we were taught that we should always set our career as the highest priority. Career first and family second. For the revolution, for communism, we must sacrifice our life, our family, of course, our children, too. It’s a sad story. However, we have to adjust ourselves and know that only family is the first priority.
- 2 回复 野木耳
- 影儿好文,这是家长最煎熬的心事,内向不好, 学坏更糟.
很难很难,怎样都难,对家长, 是越大越难.也有好的.前些时候,碰到开五金店的香港太太,她非常开朗热情,一儿一女都在美国生长, 女儿毕业做了牙医,儿子在华尔街,而且非常懂事, 女儿在外州实习时常叫妈妈问寒问暖, 主动回家帮忙. 我想这位太太的言传身教有关, 孩子从小在爱的环境中长大, 会不一样.
- 2 回复 Josepotain
- 在孩子的成长期父母一定要陪伴在旁,这对他们的人格培养是非常重要的.现在有很多小留学生独自一人来到美国,寄养在他人家中,这对他们的成长是不利的.
希望影儿写一些这方面的文章,请国内的父母们在送他们的孩子出国前多想一想.