你儿子过生日，你来赚我眼泪。
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还记得儿子出生的那一刻，固执的我拒绝打麻醉针，痛不欲生的折腾了近十个小时。当护士把包好的儿子交到我手里的瞬间，那锥心刺骨的痛已飘得无影无踪。望着那张天使般安详的小脸，我知道我要用一生去保护他，去爱他。
第一次带他去游泳，他那藕节般圆滚滚的双臂牢牢钩住我的脖子，“妈咪，你不要松手。”他连话还说不清。第一次离开他，回北京看父母，两个星期后回来，他站在门前那条小路，等了一个多小时，见我下车，奔跑过来紧紧抱住我。“妈咪，不可以再离开我”。上学了，开始打篮球，学钢琴，终于拿到了跆拳道黑带，和同学打架，身上青一块，紫一块，生病住院，头破缝针……这一路走来，我不知为了他操了多少心。但我也记得，出差在外，每天会收到他的电邮；生日，母亲节每次都有惊喜；在厨房忙碌，他会忽然出现，从背后搂住我，“你是世上最好的妈咪，我爱你。”我想当妈妈的一切辛苦在那一刻都会无影无踪。
儿子12岁了，我盼望他继续这样快乐的成长。学会爱别人，爱自己；学会用一颗感恩的心来看待周围的一切；无论将来做什么，永远保有一份热情；做一个有责任，有爱心，懂生活的男子汉。
儿子的生日已过了两个多星期，当天我给他写了一封信。他一直在问什么时候把这封信贴在我的博克上，当时我正在写法国游记，后来也就忘了。昨天他又问：“你为什么不贴呢？你以前贴了给姐姐的信。”所以，过了十几天了，我今天才写下这篇字。儿子，生日快乐！
Aug. 12, 2010
Dear Son,
Happy B-day! I cannot believe you are 12 today! On this special day, no matter how hard I tried, I could never find the words to tell you how much I love you and how thankful to God I am. My sweetest son, we went through so much together in past 12 years. But now when I look back to see those moments, my heart filled with thanksgiving. Thank you for being the best son in the world. I was just amazed and once again overwhelmed at what a little miracle you are.
The times I was affected the most was when you were sick. When you were 2 years old, you developed the disease called Kawasaki syndrome. You stayed at hospital for 8 days; mommy was holding you all that time because you won’t let anybody touch you. You had a high and persistent fever, your lip cracked, and you had red palms of the hands and the soles of the feet. What a nightmare was it! I was so scared. Do you remember when we just moved to this city? You were jumping on the bed and fell down in the corner. We have to rush you to the emergency room; as the result, you had 5 stitches on your head… Boy, why did you cause so much troubles?
My dearest boy, I treasure all that moment, even the trouble ones. I know we bound more because we went though it together. How can I forget all the good times we had? When mommy took you to see the Lakers game the first time, you were so excited to see Kobe so closely. I still remember we cheered, screamed until we lost our voices. We walked a lot during the summer; I remember all the talks we had. “Mommy, I’ll buy you a Lakers season ticket when I grow up.” “I’ll buy you a mansion near the beach.” Do you still remember those promises? You are the finest young man I know, and I hope you will think of yourself with as much high regard as I think of you. It touches my heart when you told me a few days ago: “Mommy, don’t give me a good night kiss today because I don’t want Yuya to feel bad.” You know that Yuya doesn’t have a mommy to kiss him; you are so sensitive to him. I just love this side of you! You are a rough boy, yet you have such a tender heart.
Dear son, I love you so much! I know you will grow up to be a wonderful man, no doubt about that! I have learned so much from you and will continue to do so for the years to come. How to forgive, how to love unconditionally, how to be innocent, how to have passion and enjoy the little things in life, how to be carefree…Thank you! You have made my life worthwhile! On your birthday, just want you know I love you, and I’m so proud of you.
Happy B-day!
Mommy on your 12th B-day