庚子之年,世界不太平!有瘟疫肆虐,亦有人心疯狂。一篇小文,祈望有心之人,代为转发给我们的亚裔美国朋友们,略尽绵力。
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总之一句话,求转发!谢谢!
Unlike some in China or Korea, I don’t hold a grudge against
Japan, and Japanese people. I’ve been to Japan for once, a very brief stay. Honestly,
I have a hard time to connect those soft spoken, polite, and extremely
organized people with the Nanjing Massacre. However, reality is reality. I
spent four years of my life in the city of Nanjing, and been to the Memorial Hall of
Nanjing Massacre more than once. It was an extremely traumatizing experience! The
brutality, cruelty, the humanly inhuman evilness (truth being, no animal is
nearly as cruel as human being) by the Japanese occupiers is beyond
imagination, descrip*tion, and makes Auschwitz Nazis even pale in comparison. Interestingly,
I’ve also been to Germany once, a brief stay too. Seeing a foreigner checking a
map in the street of Frankfurt, a German gentleman came up and offered to help.
Unfortunately I could not speak German and he did not speak English. He said
some “$&%#” and I said some “#%&$”, and finally we agreed that a duck
cannot really talk to a goose! But, it was a very warm experience nonetheless!
It seems to be very difficult to imagine today, that the
majority of German population once whole-heartedly supported Hitler during the
Nazi regime! Were those German people simply evil then? The answer is certainly
“No”! Neither were the Japanese people. Sometimes, even otherwise ordinary
people are capable of doing evil things, and that only takes one man at the top
to work them up, and make the population feel justified to hate! Hate is a very
strong emotion! It blinds people! It consumes people! It makes otherwise
innocent people to act in maniac distortion! And usually we don’t realize that
only many, many years after, when all the harm has been done.
And history does repeat itself!
If you do agree with this little writing below, please help
to pass it on, to Asian American friends you know. And maybe, it is still not
too late. And here we go…
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I am not someone who is fond of arguing about politics with
friends, or religion for that matter. Yes, I follow the common wisdom! Can we
really change someone else’s value and world view in a matter of minutes, and
for what? Besides proving that our view is more righteous and justified than
the next person.
But till now, as the situation in American politics is
getting more and more precarious by the day for us all, particularly if you are
someone of Chinese descent like me, or Asians in general living in the United
States and other western countries, which follow US around pretty much on most
issues. And make no mistake about it! It will hurt us all as human society when
it splits! The world is being pulled by a group of unscrupulous and
self-serving politicians into one extremely dangerous “Us against them” hysteria,
which has proven to be fatal and catastrophic again and again in history! Since
the beginning of mankind, no matter in which part of the world, in recent or
ancient times, “Us against them” propaganda has always been, and will always be
the number one cause for hatred, hostility, conflicts leading to unspeakable
atrocities against peoples! We are
always right and they are always wrong! We are by default the good guys and
they are automatically the bad guys! It seems people never realize that “we”
are also “them” in other’s eyes, and “they” are “we” too in their own shoes!
While unwittingly and shockingly, we have woken up one day and found ourselves
to have become “them” this time!
You might laugh at this as exaggeration, and I fully
understand why. You may not have had someone yelling at you to “go back to your
country” yet so you don’t really feel it! You may not have had someone spit on
you or punch you in the face either so it’s just another story in the news! It
is always someone else’s story until it happens to us in person, and then it
will become our own unforgettable and painful experience. When it has come to a
time that it can happen to any of us, it will be way too late to stop the
trend, not even to mention trying to reverse it! And we are inching closer and
closer towards that point by the day!
As of today, through three years of heinous manipulation, China
bashing has become a publicly acceptable and politically correct thing to do in
America, both in politics and news media! And it is spreading from there to the
rest of the world. Please! Do not be naïve enough to comfort yourself that
“China” and “Chinese” is a separate thing and you are an exception! It is NOT! Hatred
of one will inevitably lead to hatred of the other! What we are witnessing
today is a group of politicians holding extremist views are blaming America’s
economic, even social ills on other peoples and countries, China being the
number one target: it’s all their fault! As the number one economy in the world,
boasting the mightiest military forces showing no hesitance to wage wars,
holding a nuclear arsenal that is sufficient to destroy the planet a hundred
times and over, with nearly a thousand military bases in every corner around
the world, commanding financial dominance, capability and willingness to choke
out any country at odds with it at will, miraculously the United States of
America has actually been raped by China, so as preached!!!
Blaming others is the calling card for those who would shun
any responsibility whenever something goes wrong! And this man has shown us
everything we do not want our children to become: a pathological liar anytime
opening his mouth; first reaction when challenged is always trying to deny
responsibility and blame somebody else; a narcissist who could not resist
self-bragging at the smallest opportunity; showing nastiness and no respect to
women, minority and anyone disagreeing with him; mind-boggling ignorance and lack
of knowledge coupled with self-righteousness while conferred with power to make
important decisions affecting the life of millions; an unapologetic racist and
hater inciting suspicion and hatred to serve own interest …… and the list can
go on and on!
Why integrity matters so much for a leader? To understand
it, we should know why would anyone tell lies? It is because when someone lies,
he knows what he is doing is wrong and should not have done it in the first
place, and still he did it. When someone repeatedly lies and cheats, it means
he is always putting his own interest before others’, and having no remorse for
it! This is a big “NO” for an influential leader! Because a leader is supposed
to do exact the opposite: serving people’s interest, not his own! A
pathological liar would never do that! Everything he does is for his own
interest and benefit, and how horrible is that when he has got into a position
to manipulate millions to achieve his own illusion!
Please, do not calculate how much economic benefits you are
made to believe you are getting! “The greatest economy ever” is a mirage! Tax
cut combined with biggest deficit spending ever will always put economy on a steroid
run, but it is NOT real! To put it simply, it involves zero economic craftsmanship
or genius planning, it is nothing but spending future’s money to have today’s
fun! This is exactly the opposite of our value and common wisdom. It carries a
consequence that the perpetrator does not have to pay any price for, but our
children will one day! Even they have done nothing wrong!
“This is a war to end all wars”, declared President Woodrow
Wilson in 1917, referring to the World War 1. But that prediction failed
miserably and the world went on to have even a bloodier war two decades later.
Never underestimate the stupidity and animal side of human! So we thought it
would happen no more after the frightening days of McCarthyism in the 50s, and
here we are again, back in another full scale anti-China campaign that puts our
lives on very thin ice! It’s true there may not be gas chamber for us anymore,
but that is only because the Jewish people have suffered for us all already!
And it’s true there is no more public lynching today and that is only because
the African American has suffered for us all already! It is scary to think how
much worse situation will get if this frenzy will go on for another four years
of fuming bigotry. But one thing is for certain: this man has already put all Chinese
Americans in a mental concentration camp, where they are to be suspected,
scrutinized, excluded and inevitably hated and attacked! When you are no longer
an equal part of the society, nothing else matters any more. Through three
years of promotion of scapegoating, hatred and confrontation, this man has
brought out the real dark side of human, and the dark side of America!
Still remember the story we learned back in elementary
school, the blind men touching an elephant? One man grabbed the elephant by the
tail, and insisting elephant is like a rope! We have moved on from that stage
of our life and the story is long forgotten. However, it has stayed relevant
all along even in 21st century, and beyond. The extremists we would
usually talk about, like the ISIS, or Al-Qaeda, are nothing more than some
small-time criminals in comparison, who molest localities with their AK-47 and
gruesome killing of innocent people who are against their wills. However, their
far more dangerous and harmful counterparts are those in control of unmatched state
power, mighty military machine, and most importantly the information flow
public receive as they have the control of the loudest microphone, and one of
the biggest Twitter accounts in the world! They may be dressed neatly in suits and ties, speak eloquently at a rosewood podium, may even say “please” and
“thank you”, but their extremist view that the world is only black and white,
things can be either right or wrong, one can only be with "us" or "them", is
distorting our society, causing it to split, and helping suspicion and hatred
to brew! Their feeling is so real, and they could not help but to insist, that
elephant is like a rope!
A summer night many, many years ago in Elmira, NY, where I
got stuck with a car problem, as I was walking back to my hotel, a group of men
drove by and yelled loudly, “f*****g Korean”, and off they sped. March 2020, a
Burmese family, including a 2 years old and 6 years old children, suffered a brutal
knife attack during the current COVID-19 pandemic, as they were thought to be
Chinese. In the summer of 1982, when Japan bashing was all the rage in America,
Vincent Chin, a second generation Chinese American was violently assaulted and
killed in Detroit, and the two remorseless killers never spent even a day in
jail! Haters don’t really care who you are! They don’t really do a meticulous
background check first and then attack. They are consumed by the emotion of
hatred of people who they identify as not one of them! If today’s American
political drama of hatred is allowed to continue, not only Chinese American, but
all Asian American will suffer, including their children, who will grow up and
facing an ever hostile society! And that should never be allowed to happen!
The United States is undoubtedly the greatest country the
world has seen in past hundreds of years, and its spirits has inspired so many
young people, not only in America, but throughout the world for generations. Sadly,
it is so off the track today with a delusional drunk driver behind the wheel. I
truly and sincerely hope one day that the good side of America could be brought
back again, the integrity, honesty, courage, entrepreneurship, compassion and
kindness! And that would be the ultimate blessing for the country and the
world, and that along would make America truly great, once again!
Fool us once, shame on him! Fool us twice, shame on us!
So I plead to you, my Chinese American friends, my Asian
American friends, and my American friends in general, coming November, get rid
of this cancer of our society and do what President Obama urged the country to
do: “VOTE”!!!
A very sincere plea by one of your worried friends from
north of the border